http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/ Home of Noel Heikkinen's thoughts, audio, photos, video, etc. Fri, 19 Mar 2010 01:58:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/comment-page-1/#comment-179990 e. barrett Wed, 21 Oct 2009 18:53:28 +0000 http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/#comment-179990 Awesome flow chart. But as I was reading it, I was struck by the fact that I know all of this. It's not a lack of knowledge that prevents me from handling conflict appropriately. It's the fact that it's hard work to handle conflict. I just don't want to deal with it! Awesome flow chart. But as I was reading it, I was struck by the fact that I know all of this. It’s not a lack of knowledge that prevents me from handling conflict appropriately. It’s the fact that it’s hard work to handle conflict. I just don’t want to deal with it!

]]> http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/comment-page-1/#comment-179989 Noel Wed, 21 Oct 2009 15:18:26 +0000 http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/#comment-179989 I always appreciate a good back-handed compliment from you, Mike. Give my love to the fam. I always appreciate a good back-handed compliment from you, Mike. Give my love to the fam.

]]> http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/comment-page-1/#comment-179987 Mike Wed, 21 Oct 2009 13:59:24 +0000 http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/#comment-179987 I have only one problem with this flowchart...that I didn't create it! Awesome, Noel. Perfect. You have great promise... I have only one problem with this flowchart…that I didn’t create it! Awesome, Noel. Perfect. You have great promise…

]]> http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/comment-page-1/#comment-179986 Coryell Kelsey Tue, 20 Oct 2009 20:01:30 +0000 http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/#comment-179986 One question about the flowchart. For conflicts with non-christians, is it unbiblical to approach them in a one on one manner with the matter, and then when if you are rejected go to the "Forgive and Accept the Injustice" phase. I feel like a vast number of conflicts with both other christians and unbelievers happen with the offending party completely unaware that they have hurt you. In a lot of cases, they just need to be aware, and this ends the whole conflict. One question about the flowchart. For conflicts with non-christians, is it unbiblical to approach them in a one on one manner with the matter, and then when if you are rejected go to the “Forgive and Accept the Injustice” phase. I feel like a vast number of conflicts with both other christians and unbelievers happen with the offending party completely unaware that they have hurt you. In a lot of cases, they just need to be aware, and this ends the whole conflict.

]]> http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/comment-page-1/#comment-179985 Noel Tue, 20 Oct 2009 14:39:40 +0000 http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/#comment-179985 Ah...forgot about that. The next week I talked about how to help a friend who is stuck in sin (that is not against you). <a href="http://www.rivwarehouse.com/resources/messages/kapow!/noelheikkinen_help!.mp3" rel="nofollow">Here's a link to that message.</a> Ah…forgot about that. The next week I talked about how to help a friend who is stuck in sin (that is not against you). Here’s a link to that message.

]]> http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/comment-page-1/#comment-179984 Matthew Adams Tue, 20 Oct 2009 14:26:44 +0000 http://www.noelheikkinen.com/2009/10/20/how-to-deal-with-conflicta-flowchart/#comment-179984 Noel: This is fantastic and helpful. I'm wondering about "#4 = No...Please Come Back Next Week" Could you expand on that? I'm thinking of parents protecting children or shepherds for their sheep. What's next? Do you have an extension or subchart for that? Thanks. Noel: This is fantastic and helpful. I’m wondering about “#4 = No…Please Come Back Next Week” Could you expand on that? I’m thinking of parents protecting children or shepherds for their sheep. What’s next? Do you have an extension or subchart for that? Thanks.

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