Snowy Backyard Photo

I just took this picture of my backyard. The two lit trees are about 125 feet or so from my house. I ran lights out to them to see how it would look. I love seeing them out the back windows. I wonder what the neighbors think.

(Click on it for a larger image)

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Quote of the Day

From my new favorite site: The Art of Manliness:

If your shirt needs ironing, iron it. And don’t try to convince yourself that by not ironing it, you’re capturing a sort of rugged New England-I-spent-the-day-sailing look. No, you look like a tool who didn’t iron their shirt.

Amen.

The Gratitude Project

Thanks to Steven Furtick for this idea just in time for Thanksgiving.

1. Pick someone in your life (the first person who comes to mind is probably the correct choice) who has blessed you-whether they know it or not.

2. Send a letter, email, or post a blog telling them thanks.

3. Be specific in what you thank them for. Specificity is more meaningful than profundity. You don’t have to write outstanding prose. But if you chronicle in detail some ways they’ve blessed your life, they’ll savor every word.

4. If possible, do it before the sun goes down tonight.

I have been trying to get better at thanking people in person, via email, and small notes over the last couple months. It has been really cool because it has taught me to have my radar on all the time for people to thank.

Happy thanksgiving, all! I am thankful that you take the time to read my blog.

Poverty Gospel

Yesterday, I posted a clip from John Piper about the “Prosperity Gospel.” This is a theology that is gaining steam in many parts of the world, but quite honestly I don’t run into too many people around these parts who buy into it.

It seems we deal more with the other extreme, which is also dangerous: “Poverty Gospel.” This is the school of thought that says Christ-followers should be poor or should at least redistribute their wealth. It is almost becoming the cool thing to “be poor for Jesus.”

This idea stems from the same problem as the “Prosperity Gospel,” and that is a lack of “Razor’s Edge Living.” Instead of seeing the paradoxical way the Bible calls us to live, we jump to one extreme or another. It’s simpler, it’s less complex, and we can ignore parts of the Bible we don’t like. In fact I just got done reading a very popular book (that has been recommended to me by tons of people). The author basically calls Christians to live with or like the poor and gives us the impression that to do so is more godly than to live in the burbs and drive your new Honda Accord to church.

There are a ton of verses we could look at, but I’ll just slap up one passage. Note the underlined parts:

1Timothy 6:17-19 - Instruct those who are rich in this present world not to be conceited or to fix their hope on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly supplies us with all things to enjoy. Instruct them to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, storing up for themselves the treasure of a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is life indeed.

See it? God richly supplies us with things to enjoy. This is not “Prosperity Gospel,” but God giving to us as he sees fit. And part of his plan is that we enjoy these things. But it doesn’t stop there! We are also to be generous and ready to share. It’s a both/and thing.

The reason I wanted to write about this is the current economic times. I am concerned that when things get a bit tenuous, Christians tend to run to one of the extremes. In these times, especially in a state that is so tied to the auto industry, we should all be on guard against both of these errors.

Prosperity Gospel

There are two equally dangerous traps followers of Jesus can fall into when it comes to our material things. The first is the “Prosperity Gospel.” This trap says you will be materially blessed if you are in “right relationship with Jesus.”

In other words, sanctification comes with bling, an Escalade with rims, and a Chinchilla jacket.

I was going to write a bit on this, but my friend Joel sent me an amazing video from John Piper, so I’ll let him take if from here.

Tomorrow, I’ll write a bit about the opposite trap.

Free Dr Pepper!

Thanks to Nate for this link from Yahoo! News. He knows I am a fan of both Dr. Pepper and GNR.

LOS ANGELES – Dr Pepper is making good on its promise of free soda now that the release of Guns N’ Roses’ “Chinese Democracy” is a reality. The soft-drink maker said in March that it would give a free soda to everyone in America if the album dropped in 2008. “Chinese Democracy,” infamously delayed since recording began in 1994, goes on sale Sunday.

Make sure you go to DrPepper.com tomorrow!

The Killers

OK, so I am a huge fan of The Killers and I can’t wait for the new album to come out. (iTunes says next Tuesday, November 25)

This clip from the MTV Europe Awards is absolutely sick (the good kind). (via hellofrancis):

Amen

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WWJD?

I have to say I am seriously torn.

This Sunday, Riv is hosting our first national music act, The Avett Brothers. The show is going to be awesome.

The problem is it happens at the same time as “24 Redemption,” the two hour 24 prequel.

I know I can DVR it, but I keep asking myself “What Would Jack Do?”

I just may have to torture Dan for bringing the Avett Brothers in on this particular day. I fear it may be my only choice.

Oh, BTW, check out this shot of Jack in Africa.

See it? That’s right. Even when he has a backpack on, he’s still carrying the Jack Sack.

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Seriously Cute

This is too cute.

How to Give and Take Criticism like a Man

I just stumbled onto a great blog called “The Art of Manliness.” Made me think of the “Man Class” Steve just taught at Riv. Here’s the stated purpose of the site:

My idea for the Art of Manliness came about as I was reading Men’s Health magazine. It seemed to me that the magazine’s contents were continually going downhill, with more and more articles about sex and how to get six pack abs. Was this all there was to being a man?

(Note from Noel: I didn’t renew my Men’s Health subscription this year for the same reasons.)

And as I looked around at the men my age, it seemed to me that many were shirking responsibility and refusing to grow up. They had lost the confidence, focus, skills, and virtues that men of the past had embodied and were a little lost. The feminism movement did some great things, but it also made men confused about their role and no longer proud of the virtues of manliness. This, coupled with the fact that many men were raised without the influence of a good father, has left a generation adrift as to what it means to be an honorable, well-rounded man.

Let me say at the outset that this isn’t an ironic site (like the one I talked about last week). This guy seems seriously concerned about men learning to be men. I couldn’t agree more. It seems like we often find ourselves “reparenting” the very type of guy he is talking about here.

The first post I read was How to Give and Take Criticism like a Man and I couldn’t say “amen” more. Here’s an excerpt. Take some time to read the whole post, it’s really good.

Dealing with criticism is a skill every well-adjusted man should possess. We give and take criticism among our co-workers, our friends, and our family. Criticism is an important part of our personal self improvement, for it is other people who can point out mistakes and shortcomings that we can’t see because we lack objectivity. Unfortunately, many young men today don’t know how to offer and accept criticism like a man. Instead they handle criticism like little boys. When giving criticism, they opt only to give snide, cutting jabs that do nothing to improve the situation. When receiving criticism, they sulk, make excuses, and argue with the person criticizing them. Ask any teacher who has the nerve of giving a student a poor grade. Today’s students will cry and whine their way to a better one. Or worst of all, have their parents intervene. They simply don’t know how to respectfully accept criticism.

This particular topic is probably equally applicable to men and women (as many of the site’s topics are), but I have seen so many passive men who need to grow up in this area.

Beards, Whiteness, and the Trump Card of Ironic

So I am a big fan of the site Stuff White People Like. That’s why I was excited when someone from Riv walked up, introduced himself and handed me a copy of the book version of Stuff White People Like “to borrow.” People hand me unsolicited books “to borrow” all the time (which is an interesting and hard to keep track of phenomena). I digress…

I was flipping through the book today and I was disappointed at the number of chapters that were straight from the site.

Then, I came across #95: Beards!

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Here’s an excerpt:

Beards have been in fashion with white people since the dawn of white people. However, for research purposes, the modern white beard emerged at the same time as the modern white person: the 60’s.

Over the next twenty years the beard would be strongly adopted by both rock stars and professors. For a white person, these are two of the most respected professions, so the ability to resemble either is seen as a very desirable trait…

White males have had much social success in recent years, as their facial hair says, “Look at me. I am manly enough to grow this beard…”

All of this was wonderful stuff to read.

Until I hit this paragraph:

In fact, the only white person who can top a bearded male is a white person who has grown ironic facial hair. These are the elite. They grow mustaches in various guises to show that they are so out of style that they are actually cooler than you.

Dang it:
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What to do in an emergency

Thanks to my sister for this link to a parody of Ready.gov, http://homeland.gov.safenow.org.

It gives very practical information, based on the actual pictures from the Government’s site. For instance:

Vis Rad Time

Try to absorb as much of the radiation as possible with your groin region. The current world record is 5 minutes, 12 seconds.

What should I teach on?

This fall was a marathon of teaching for me and now I am on a little break (which is very nice).

Normally, at this point I know what my next series or two are going to be. However, at this point I have no idea what to teach on.

Since my blog readers were so helpful in crafting the last series, I thought maybe you could help.

What should I teach on?

Politics

At Riv this past weekend, I went as political as I get publicly. Here’s the 5ish minute clip:

After this message, I had tons of people ask me the same question:

“You said to ‘honor and respect’ our governmental authorities. What about evil governments?”

Because of the sheer number of times I got this question, I figured I’d post my response here.

First of all, this is not something “I said.” It is something “God said.” I’m not making this up, you can find these verses in your very own Bible.

Romans 13:1-2,6-7
Everyone must submit to governing authorities. For all authority comes from God, and those in positions of authority have been placed there by God. So anyone who rebels against authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and they will be punished…Pay your taxes, too, for these same reasons. For government workers need to be paid. They are serving God in what they do. Give to everyone what you owe them: Pay your taxes and government fees to those who collect them, and give respect and honor to those who are in authority.

Again, these are not my words, they are God’s. We are to submit to, honor, and respect our governing authorities.

So, what about Evil empires?

Well, let’s go back to the time Paul was writing this letter. What was happening to the church? They were being persecuted. By whom? The government! Paul himself was being terrorized by the government! And yet he says we are to submit to, honor and respect our governing authorities.

The bottom line is our attitude. A Christ-follower’s attitude is to be above reproach. It is my opinion that we are to submit to our governmental authorities until such time comes that they usurp God’s authority and negate our freedom to obey him.

For example, if our government said I was required to perform gay marriages and they commanded me to do so, I would do two things:
1) I would disobey
2) I would bear the consequences with an honoring and respectful attitude

For more on this you can download a message I gave on a Christ-followers relationship to government by clicking here.

TIme for me to go political!

When I told one of my co-pastors Steve that the Lansing State Journal interviewed me about the election, he said “I bet they got a lot out of you.” The man knows me well.

I’ll have to pick up a physical copy because the LSJ is shrewdly only printing partial articles on their website now, but I already know my favorite part of the article. I’ve noted it here:

(via lansingstatejournal.com)

Noel Heikkinen, who is on the team of pastors at Riverview Church in Holt, has avoided discussing politics with the congregation, which represents a wide range of political views.

“This is the weekend when I’m going to tell them why,” he said.

See it? Kathleen Lavey (who wrote the article) didn’t even ask about this when we talked because she knows that we have a team of pastors out here. Considering how often reporters have wrestled with what “official title” to give me, I was stoked to see that show up.

Oh, did you see the other thing?

Yup…I’m kinda going political this weekend.

Who Do Ya Read?

I was inspired by a question asked at ChrisReeder.com. Simply, “What are your must read blogs?”

You can click on Link Love on my site to see all the sites I read on a regular basis. I have a “Daily Read” category which are the sites I tend to read in their entireties. The “Daily Skim” gets a cursory read and everything else gets whatever time I have left.

For the sake of this post, I looked over the list to find the blogs I can’t live without. My self-imposed rule was blogs that I rarely (if ever) skip. Here they are:

So…who do ya read?

Regret

This past week I taught on Regret at Riv and several people asked me for a copy of the email Paul sent me. Here it is:

When a person allows their regrets to hold them captive - it seems to me that it is the ultimate display of pride. To not forgive ourselves - when God died to forgive us for our mistakes/sins - aren’t we really saying that we think our sin is too great for Christ to forgive? Not to believe fully in His sacrifice - IS the ultimate display of pride and lack of humility. Our regret is somehow too great to forgive?

My Candidate Won!

In the most important election yesterday, the best candidate won. My son Jesse was elected Class Representative in a landslide victory. He stood for the important issues of our day: lunchroom noise control, hat Wednesdays, and orderly lines at recess.

Nice work, Representative Heikkinen!

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Vote

Just a friendly little reminder.

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